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... the parent from looking at what the child is actually learning. Ask: from my child's perspective, is my ask an emotional risk? Will it cause anxiety? Does child have the skills required to fulfil the request, even if emotional? If child feels unsafe, they will not risk doing anything; no matter how many positive words or demands you make. Solution = connection. Connection creates trust. Trust creates safety. Safety gives a child the courage to risk fulfilling your request.

... the parent from looking at what the child is actually learning. Ask: from my child's perspective, is my ask an emotional risk? Will it cause anxiety? Does child have the skills required to fulfil the request, even if emotional? If child feels unsafe, they will not risk doing anything; no matter how many positive words or demands you make. Solution = connection. Connection creates trust. Trust creates safety. Safety gives a child the courage to risk fulfilling your request.

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6 Ways to Prevent Sibling Rivalry

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I just thought you'd want to know. Have a great weekend. If you want resources to shift your parental power from reacting to a mindful super-power, see how we can help at www.proactiveparenting.net. #ProactiveParenting #parenting #power #superpowers Parenting Challenge, You Are Next, Emotionally Exhausted, Knowledge And Wisdom, Self Discipline, Critical Thinking, Super Powers

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I just thought you'd want to know. Have a great weekend. If you want resources to shift your parental power from reacting to a mindful super-power, see how we can help at www.proactiveparenting.net. #ProactiveParenting #parenting #power #superpowers

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Not true, not when you work with me. Here's a short clip from the interview I just did on the podcast Parent Tell. We had so much fun. Yes, it was light, and there were also aha moments for us both. Full episode: http://bit.ly/3RJkPz8 P.S. Want to see if Proactive Parenting is a match for you and your family? Book a Free-15-Minute-Proactive-Solution-Chat to see if we're a match. (The link will be up on the home page next week. To schedule a Solution Chat now, send me a FB DM. #parenttell

Not true, not when you work with me. Here's a short clip from the interview I just did on the podcast Parent Tell. We had so much fun. Yes, it was light, and there were also aha moments for us both. Full episode: http://bit.ly/3RJkPz8 P.S. Want to see if Proactive Parenting is a match for you and your family? Book a Free-15-Minute-Proactive-Solution-Chat to see if we're a match. (The link will be up on the home page next week. To schedule a Solution Chat now, send me a FB DM. #parenttell

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Up at the crack of dawn, going a million miles an hour every day; you're worn out. THEN, sweet child does a normal kid-like thing & you unload on them. You never plan to dump your stress on your child; it just seems to land there. Here are practical ways to stop dumping your stress on your kids. For methods and playbooks that shift your parenting toward mindful, calm methods that maintain your family's line in the sand. www.proactiveparenting.net #stress #dumping #stress #practical Dawn

Up at the crack of dawn, going a million miles an hour every day; you're worn out. THEN, sweet child does a normal kid-like thing & you unload on them. You never plan to dump your stress on your child; it just seems to land there. Here are practical ways to stop dumping your stress on your kids. For methods and playbooks that shift your parenting toward mindful, calm methods that maintain your family's line in the sand. www.proactiveparenting.net #stress #dumping #stress #practical

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Kids know when they're upset. What they don't know is how to tell you about it. They need a safe space to unload. • Play allows fun to occur until child feels safe enough to share. • Play stops them from feeling like they're on the hot seat as you interview them about their day. • Play does not demand they "look at you." Give play a try; you'll be pleased with the results. Resources that build trust, connection & mindful ways to maintain the line in the sand @ www.proactiveparenting.net Look At You, Hot Seat, Build Trust, Play Therapy

Kids know when they're upset. What they don't know is how to tell you about it. They need a safe space to unload. • Play allows fun to occur until child feels safe enough to share. • Play stops them from feeling like they're on the hot seat as you interview them about their day. • Play does not demand they "look at you." Give play a try; you'll be pleased with the results. Resources that build trust, connection & mindful ways to maintain the line in the sand @ www.proactiveparenting.net

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We have resources for change that transform parenting from arguing, yelling and constant timeouts. Come see what we share, and get our gift, 30 Breakthrough Choices that Ends Arguing @ https://proactiveparenting.net #listening #boundaries #parenting #timeout #mindful #arguing #transforming Yelling, Arguing, Breakthrough, Teaching Kids, Transformations, Behavior, Skills

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We have resources for change that transform parenting from arguing, yelling and constant timeouts. Come see what we share, and get our gift, 30 Breakthrough Choices that Ends Arguing @ https://proactiveparenting.net #listening #boundaries #parenting #timeout #mindful #arguing #transforming

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This is one of the #1 questions I am asked. Read what to try, apply the concept and then come back and let me know if it worked for you. #parentingchanges #listening #gettingkidstolisten #stoprepeating #whykidsdon'tlisten #parenting @change #stop #repeating #nomorerepeating Teaching Life Skills, Seminar, Coaching, Ebook, Lesson

Teaching Life Skills

This is one of the #1 questions I am asked. Read what to try, apply the concept and then come back and let me know if it worked for you. #parentingchanges #listening #gettingkidstolisten #stoprepeating #whykidsdon'tlisten #parenting @change #stop #repeating #nomorerepeating

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Kids have been watching your face, decoding your body language, and taking clues from your tone of voice since birth. They feel your love & see sweetness reflected in your smiles & hugs. 2023 is the year of the family; the time for awarenss to enter the family dynamic. BEGIN by experiencing what's possible w/ our blog articles or free gift: *30 Breakthrough Choices that ENDs Arguing about the Rules.* https://proactiveparenting.net/choices/ #love #child #family #parenting #rules #choices Magda Gerber, Love Plus, Parenting Rules, Family Parenting, Family Systems, Kids Behavior, Body Language

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Kids have been watching your face, decoding your body language, and taking clues from your tone of voice since birth. They feel your love & see sweetness reflected in your smiles & hugs. 2023 is the year of the family; the time for awarenss to enter the family dynamic. BEGIN by experiencing what's possible w/ our blog articles or free gift: *30 Breakthrough Choices that ENDs Arguing about the Rules.* https://proactiveparenting.net/choices/ #love #child #family #parenting #rules #choices

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🎄 Kids see Santa's 🎅 🎅🏽 🎅🏻 🎅🏿 everywhere & want to know which one is real. 🎄 Kids need age appropriate truth from you, so they learn to trust you without question before the more challenging stuff shows up. Does that mean you must destroy the magic of the holidays or the religious beliefs you hold dear? Not at all. Read how a NY Times writer addressed this question with her child. http://proactiveparenting.net/santa Santa Real, Holiday Messages, Learning To Trust, Conversation Starters, Trust Yourself, Ny Times, Children, Kids

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🎄 Kids see Santa's 🎅 🎅🏽 🎅🏻 🎅🏿 everywhere & want to know which one is real. 🎄 Kids need age appropriate truth from you, so they learn to trust you without question before the more challenging stuff shows up. Does that mean you must destroy the magic of the holidays or the religious beliefs you hold dear? Not at all. Read how a NY Times writer addressed this question with her child. http://proactiveparenting.net/santa

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This is a beautiful story that embraces all religions, and is perfect for our times. #christmas #gifts #traditions Help Kids Learn, Kids Learning, Explained, Beliefs, Answers, Tough

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This is a beautiful story that embraces all religions, and is perfect for our times. #christmas #gifts #traditions

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Another top complaint moms have is “There’s no time for me!” True. When focus on all you have to accomplish and ruminate about how much doing them pisses you off, or internally rage about the fact that no one else helps, or are wondering how your life got to be the way it is—you’re not focused on the now. That leaves you feeling defeated and powerless, stopping you from being present. Find out what else I say over on the blog @ https://proactiveparenting.net/blog/ Feeling Defeated, No Time For Me, Chore List, Struggle Is Real, A Train

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Struggle Is Real

Another top complaint moms have is “There’s no time for me!” True. When focus on all you have to accomplish and ruminate about how much doing them pisses you off, or internally rage about the fact that no one else helps, or are wondering how your life got to be the way it is—you’re not focused on the now. That leaves you feeling defeated and powerless, stopping you from being present. Find out what else I say over on the blog @ https://proactiveparenting.net/blog/

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The struggle is REAL— Part 1 The endless decisions, the tedious chores, the demanding activities, nurturing your relationship, yourself, and the kids, plus the work you do—the struggle to get it all done is REAL! You feel like a train wreak You’re physically and emotionally exhausted. Yet, each time you think about the never-ending chores list, you get a bad case of what-about-me-ism. A REAL Solution @http://www.proactiveparenting.net/blog PLUS, there are tons of other helpful articles.

The struggle is REAL— Part 1 The endless decisions, the tedious chores, the demanding activities, nurturing your relationship, yourself, and the kids, plus the work you do—the struggle to get it all done is REAL! You feel like a train wreak You’re physically and emotionally exhausted. Yet, each time you think about the never-ending chores list, you get a bad case of what-about-me-ism. A REAL Solution @http://www.proactiveparenting.net/blog PLUS, there are tons of other helpful articles.

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You're ready to transform your yelling & punishments into mindful ways to maintain your line in the sand, but you're not sure where to turn? Proactive Parenting is the answer. We provide you with methods to uplevel your parenting so it reduces emotional exhaustion and stress all while doing the most important job you have... maintaining, guding, and teaching about the rules and boundaries life requires us to learn. TODAY it's all 30% off.

You're ready to transform your yelling & punishments into mindful ways to maintain your line in the sand, but you're not sure where to turn? Proactive Parenting is the answer. We provide you with methods to uplevel your parenting so it reduces emotional exhaustion and stress all while doing the most important job you have... maintaining, guding, and teaching about the rules and boundaries life requires us to learn. TODAY it's all 30% off.

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Parental FOMO: The anxiety that everyone has got this parentng thing dialed in but you. That's a lie! Proactive Parenting is here to stop your emotional exhaustion and yelling. We share answers, solutions, and methods that provide ways to remain connected, calm, and mindful as you maintain your line in sand with your kids. You know it's time to stop yelling, but you haven't found something to replace it that works. Come see how you can transform your parenting, while everything is on sale!

Parental FOMO: The anxiety that everyone has got this parentng thing dialed in but you. That's a lie! Proactive Parenting is here to stop your emotional exhaustion and yelling. We share answers, solutions, and methods that provide ways to remain connected, calm, and mindful as you maintain your line in sand with your kids. You know it's time to stop yelling, but you haven't found something to replace it that works. Come see how you can transform your parenting, while everything is on sale!

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This answer is destined to become a classic. It does not change, or alter any reliogious beliefs. Read if for yourself to see, you'll be glad you did. Mindful Parenting, Feelings And Emotions, How To Become, Teaching

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This answer is destined to become a classic. It does not change, or alter any reliogious beliefs. Read if for yourself to see, you'll be glad you did.

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Parenting can be less emotionally exhausting! How? Solutions & methods are 30% for Black Friday.

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You want to feel connected, empowered, empathetic & aware when correcting behavior, AND less frustrated, emotionally exhausted, angry, & like a screaming banshee 24/7. YOU'RE IN LUCK. TODAY-thru Black Friday EVERYTHING; playbooks filled w/ methods, concepts, & parental skills are 30% off. *FYI* We're changing how we package support in 2023! You'll won't be able to purchase *single products.* BUT, Black Friday's discount means you begin changing family dynamics today, before the holidays.

You want to feel connected, empowered, empathetic & aware when correcting behavior, AND less frustrated, emotionally exhausted, angry, & like a screaming banshee 24/7. YOU'RE IN LUCK. TODAY-thru Black Friday EVERYTHING; playbooks filled w/ methods, concepts, & parental skills are 30% off. *FYI* We're changing how we package support in 2023! You'll won't be able to purchase *single products.* BUT, Black Friday's discount means you begin changing family dynamics today, before the holidays.

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Did you know there is a secret to how to word choices so they end arguing about the rules? The name of the PDF for this secret tip , and it's my gift to you is... 30 Breakthrough Choices for Kids that Ends Arguing About Your Rules. #choicesforkids #parenting #rules #correcting #behavior #stop #arguing Word Choice, Discipline, Wholeness, Choices, Wise

Did you know there is a secret to how to word choices so they end arguing about the rules? The name of the PDF for this secret tip , and it's my gift to you is... 30 Breakthrough Choices for Kids that Ends Arguing About Your Rules. #choicesforkids #parenting #rules #correcting #behavior #stop #arguing

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Here is an excerpt from today's blog post about intuition. Yes, your intuition tells you that, but that’s not the only thing that your intuitive Spidey sense does. It’s there to help support you too. And when you don’t listen, you feel stressed. You feel separated from yourself. You feel dehumanized. You feel like you’re walking around on auto-pilot, and the stress is unbearable. #intuition #stress #parenting #mentalhealth Feel Like, Like You, News Articles, Read More, Intuition, Senses

Here is an excerpt from today's blog post about intuition. Yes, your intuition tells you that, but that’s not the only thing that your intuitive Spidey sense does. It’s there to help support you too. And when you don’t listen, you feel stressed. You feel separated from yourself. You feel dehumanized. You feel like you’re walking around on auto-pilot, and the stress is unbearable. #intuition #stress #parenting #mentalhealth

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@ 2-3 ask kids to take a thank-you bite. 1 bite of each thing on plate @ each meal to say thank you for time & energy it took to prepare it. Ritual empowers & teaches by answering, "Is tummy full enough to make it to breakfast?" *Action: Size of fist = size of stomach. *Action: Hungry tummy = learning. Empathetically ask, "What HUGE breakfast can I make in the am?" *Blending empathy & empowerment w/ enforcing rules = 5 Actions that STOP you from Losing your sh*t During Parenting Chaos. Anorexia, Extreme Picky Eaters, Baby Food Pouch Recipes, Food Issues, Food Texture, Picky Eating, Healthy Toddler Meals, Eat Veggies

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@ 2-3 ask kids to take a thank-you bite. 1 bite of each thing on plate @ each meal to say thank you for time & energy it took to prepare it. Ritual empowers & teaches by answering, "Is tummy full enough to make it to breakfast?" *Action: Size of fist = size of stomach. *Action: Hungry tummy = learning. Empathetically ask, "What HUGE breakfast can I make in the am?" *Blending empathy & empowerment w/ enforcing rules = 5 Actions that STOP you from Losing your sh*t During Parenting Chaos.

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