but it's true isn't it? There's just that "girl code" thing that doesn't even need discussion for one to get it,, girls that act like your friend but pursue "your guy" & flirt in front of you & invite him to hang out/ go to events but not you, ignore your feelings, are heartless, & are NOT your friend,, no matter what they tell u they really don't give a shit about you & thus break this code...