Be kind and true. Words cant describe the pain felt when your loved ones turn their backs on you and then lie to your face. Its never your enemy that breaks you....its always the ones you hold close to your heart. Just remember...if they gossip with you, they WILL gossip about you. Don't hold a grudge, they aren't the effort or your time...the man upstairs sees how they've treated you and he will punish them each accordingly.