if you can't be kind, be quiet. If only people remember that in the "HEAT" of the moment. When we were young, we were told just about the same thing. "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"
Full House - one of my all time favorite tv shows, the bond between the Uncle and the niece is truly inseparable. She breaks his tough heart and they become inseparable in each other's lives. They joke around and share a bond that can never break.