Wifehood is the biggest blessing but it is also hard work. If your husband has checked out, God has not. He can use you to restore your marriage but first you must surrender the pieces of your marriage, and heart, to Him.
Scripture: "Lord, may my children see a marriage worth imitating when they look at our marriage." –Ephesians - yes my vision is that God will show my children miracles through my marriage restoration and they will want a marriage like ours someday .