INFJ so true! People don't see that I'm an independent thinker who has a big voice because I don't run around screaming my opinions like most. I will always do what I want regardless of popular opinion. I just do it quietly and without the need of everyone's eyes on me.
I really hate small talk and chit chat. I may not talk about myself but I do want to know about you. Then when I trust you enough to know that you won't betray me, I may talk about myself. I love listening more than talking.