I learned this a long time a go. IT DOESN'T WORK!!!! People call me selfish, sometimes.... Because in reality, I'm doing what I want. What makes me happy. And I'm NOT allowing for third party individuals to the mix, to have a say, I out or anything in what I do. And new flash: I don't give a fuck about your feelings!!! Never had, never will!! These assholes are not in my heart. And their entitlement in think that they have a say that I have to consider it, makes me sick!!!