Losing friends when pregnant quotes

There are so many things that us who have had our babies born too soon missed out on. "Well life isn't fair" Ugh...don't even go there. That is so invalidating. There is such a thing as people being able to express their feelings without being shut down right away. Yes mama, you did deserve a better pregnancy, and I am so sorry for all of the pain you have taken on from it since. Original quote was shared with me last year by @swiftchick #nicumom #preemiehood #nicu #micropreemie #preemie...

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No one tells you how hard pregnancy after loss is going to be. Before every single appointment, I was terrified. I was so sure I was going to get bad news. Nervous of being told there was no heartbeat.

When we lose our baby, the last thing many of us want to do is have to face other pregnant women or be around other people's babies. These things are just reminders of what we have lost. People expect us to just go on as if nothing happened. They expect us to go to baby showers, be around other pregnant family and friends, and be around babies. They expect us to do it happily and not complain and not express how it makes us feel. But the truth is these things are just too painful, especia...

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When you go through a loss, it makes you afraid of losing every single baby after that. You think you will feel better when you cross the gestation of your loss, but there is still fear. You think you will feel better when you get out of the first trimester...or the second trimester...but the fear is still there. You think you will feel better when you go into labor or start the induction, but the fear of losing them is still there. Even after they are born, the fear is there that we will...

This is a poem I wrote when I got home from the hospital. I went in for a scan but to my absolute dismay, I found out my precious baby wasn't inside my womb. This was the second time I got pregnant, only 16 months prior I had lost my first baby to miscarriage..

To say life changes completely after going through a pregnancy or infant loss is a vast understatement. Thoughts of even thinking about trying again can be so terrifying. You desperately want a baby to hold in your empty arms, but you are also so afraid of losing another baby. Thinking about trying after loss, trying after loss, being pregnant after loss... All are the bravest and scariest thing you can do after loss. It's nine months of holding your breath waiting for the other show to ...