Oh do they ever Lol narcissistic mothers will use people in the family, to do her dirty work, provoke, gas light, create drama, begin family rivalries, then sit back watching it go up in smoke, pretending her innocence, wanting people feel sorry for her & give the attention she craves (flying monkeys) she plays victim, also her way of interfering with her son's relationship, while everybody blames the targeted person who wants nothing to do with her! Narc mom will blame her son's ex "destroyed"