Well it seems a little oxymoronish to Kill and be Kind at the same time.but being kind is the right thing to do, maybe instead of killing them they will learn to be kind also, or just be kind in return. The Golden Rule if you will.
I'm trying desperately to figure out what the reason was for putting him in my path. Other than heartbreak and ruining my self confidence and feeling totally conned and stupid, I don't know. Maybe i needed to learn that you really can't trust people.
Pay Close Attention To her!When she's "asking questions" she is trying to gain clarity. When she's quite and letting things "slide" she is giving up. And when she's not doing any of the above just know you lost a good woman.